“The Lord detests differing weights, and dishonest scales do not please him.” — Proverbs 20:23 (NIV) Theft, in its most literal and obvious form, is widely and uncontroversially condemned across virtually every culture and moral framework. Few people seriously argue…
Author: Oluwatayo Alofun
“So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth.” — Malachi 2:15 (NIV) Loyalty is frequently misunderstood as a passive state, something a person simply possesses by default until an active choice…
“However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” — Ephesians 5:33 (NIV) Affair-proofing a marriage is not primarily a defensive project, focused exclusively on what must be…
“Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” — Psalm 51:10 (NIV) Psalm 51 occupies a unique place in scripture: it is the recorded prayer of a man who had already committed adultery,…
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” — Matthew 5:27-28 (NIV) Marriage is about…
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” — Galatians 5:22-23 (NIV) There is a meaningful difference between managing anger through sheer willpower and managing it through genuine spiritual transformation, and…
“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” — James 1:19 (NIV) Anger rarely arrives as a freestanding emotion, complete in itself and requiring no further investigation. It is, far more often, a surface…
“In your anger do not sin: do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.” — Ephesians 4:26 (NIV) Managing anger biblically begins with a step that sounds almost too simple to mention, yet remains, in practice,…
“You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder.’ But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgement.” — Matthew 5:21-22 (NIV) Jesus’s…
“The Lord disciplines the one he loves, as a father the son he delights in.” — Hebrews 12:6 (NIV) Discipline is frequently misunderstood as the opposite of love, a necessary unpleasantness imposed despite affection rather than because of it. Scripture…