“It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.”
—1 Corinthians 13:5 (NIV)
In a world that often promotes self-interest and personal gain, 1 Corinthians 13:5 offers a countercultural perspective: love is not self-seeking. Genuine love is selfless, prioritizing the needs and well-being of others above our own desires. It’s not about what we can get but about what we can give. Reflecting on this, how often do we approach our relationships with a mindset of selflessness?
Self-seeking behavior can creep into our relationships subtly. It might look like wanting to be right in an argument, expecting others to meet our needs without considering theirs, or only showing kindness when it benefits us. But true love asks us to go beyond ourselves. It invites us to listen more, serve willingly, and sacrifice for the good of those we care about. This kind of love mirrors Christ’s selfless sacrifice for us.
Jesus exemplified this selfless love when He laid down His life for us. He wasn’t focused on His comfort or rights; He was focused on rescuing us from sin and restoring our relationship with God. When we follow His example, we begin to see others through His eyes, valuing their needs and putting their interests ahead of our own. Who in your life could benefit from a little more selflessness on your part?
Choosing love that is not self-seeking isn’t always easy, but it transforms relationships. It builds trust, fosters unity, and creates an atmosphere of mutual respect and care. Ask God to help you love with this kind of selflessness, not relying on your own strength but on the love He’s poured into your heart. As you prioritize others, you’ll discover the joy and fulfillment that comes from living out God’s design for love.
Prayer:
Lord, thank you for your selfless love that gave everything for me. Teach me to love others in the same way, putting their needs above my own. Help me to let go of selfishness and to seek ways to serve, honor, and care for those around me. May my love reflect your heart and bring glory to your name. Amen.
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