One of the struggles many believers face in their emotional walk with God is misunderstanding the distinction between unconditional love and conditional reward. These are two different phases in our Christian journey that we must grasp if we are to have a healthy understanding of God’s dealings with us.
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Yesterday, we began exploring the two phases of the Christian walk. Today, let’s take a deeper look into these phases and their significance for every believer.
When a person transitions from being a child of disobedience to being born again and entering into the Body of Christ, they step into the first phase of their Christian walk: a relationship with the Father. This relationship is the foundation of our sonship. However, God doesn’t expect us to remain in this initial phase. His desire is for us to progress into the second phase-pleasing Him.
In Matthew 3:17, we witness a powerful moment when God declares His approval over His Son, Jesus, before He even begins His ministry. John the Baptist hears these words: This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased. As I meditated on these words, the Lord revealed to me that this statement reflects His pattern, plan, and requirement for every believer.
Continuing from where we left off, let’s explore the third type of experience that believers can encounter: Normal Experiences. These are the experiences that the majority of Christians will go through at various points in their walk with God. Unlike exceptional experiences, which are rare and often extraordinary, normal experiences are more common and routine, yet they play an important role in shaping our faith and testimony.
As believers, our journey with God encompasses different experiences, each shaping our faith and testimony. These experiences determine how we live and how others see God’s work in our lives. There are three key types of experiences that define our walk as children of God:
As we enter the month of July, it’s a reminder that we are halfway through the year. This moment gives us an opportunity to reflect on our journey with God and our identity in Him. A few years ago, I had a revelation that still rings in my heart to this day. In that moment, I heard the words, This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased. The words echoed in my spirit, and I felt an intense focus on the second part: …in whom I am well pleased.
When Ezra confronted the people about their sin, he didn’t just call for confession-he called for change. And the people responded with something rare and powerful: radical obedience. They didn’t argue, delay, or look for loopholes. They said, “You are right. We must do as you say.” What followed was a painstaking process of separating from their sinful choices to restore their covenant with God. It wasn’t easy. It was deeply personal. But they were willing-because holiness was worth it.
Imagine standing in the cold, pouring rain, shivering and wet-not because you had to, but because your heart was broken. That’s the scene in Ezra 10:9–11. The people of Israel gathered, trembling not just from the weather, but from the weight of conviction. They had sinned, and they knew it. Yet instead of retreating to comfort or covering themselves in excuses, they stood in the rain and owned their wrong. It was raw, it was uncomfortable, and it was the beginning of real change.
True repentance isn’t just about feeling sorry-it’s about taking action. In Ezra 10:3–4, the people who had compromised by marrying pagan women didn’t just weep over their sin; they made a covenant to turn away from it. It was a painful and complicated decision, but it showed that their repentance was real. They were willing to separate from anything that stood in the way of holiness.
Ezra had just poured out his heart in repentance-grieved by the people’s compromise, heartbroken by how far they had strayed. But it was in that moment of deep sorrow that something powerful happened: hope was sparked. Shekaniah stood up and declared what we all need to remember-“In spite of this, there is still hope.” That’s the beauty of repentance. It doesn’t end in despair-it opens the door to restoration.